Fuck this world, I'm going to wonderland!

I saw just yesterday poster stating the above. Coming from a 5-year old child. It made me think and gave me the message to define integration for myself.

I strongly believe that programs of integration, emphasis on the word programs, anywhere in the world are destined to fail, because successful integration starts from home. It starts from our upbringing and thinking model. If it is nonexistent, there is no point talking about integration, but about family values instead. People without a proper upbringing are not able to handle communication with fellow natives. I go even further. There are more and more people who have difficulties relating to their own family. Being so, all formal attempts to manage integration process is not understandable. These are fantasies. Delusion, derived from stupidity.

In my opinion integration is foremost respect.  Respect towards yourself and people around you. Regardless the gender, race or skincolor. Acceptance with the thought that everyone, who is not I, is different.

Attitude described above, towards society and everything around you, becomes part of your, mine and our children’s bloodstream only by home remedies. Later blood transfers are artificial and non-changing to your actual blood type, as system recognizes only blood type matching to your own.

Therefore, to improve integration by formal meaning and actual being, we need healthy families, whose bloodstream consists of respect-, caring- and loveable blood particles.

Respect your child and make sure that he/she respects everything that surrounds him/her. Even when there is something hard to understand or not to like. In that case, if we are lucky, after hundred years we are able to see in addition to the sun and the moon the rainbow in our collective sky.

Let’s start from home. Positive integration reflects on a child who is able to offer a seat to elderly person and takes off his/hers hat when entering the room. Child, who has been raised up in a home where words like “I love you” and “ I understand you” are not feared.